So frustrated with my husband

I got orders to be with him. I'm leaving all of my friends again to be stationed with him. Easy choice, I love him and want to be there, but it's going to be a hard move for me, I'll have a different platform to work on, so I have to learn how to soy job all over again on a different aircraft, and I have to make all new friends, and get used to driving in a big city (not a great driver in traffic, can you say road rage)

Anway

I move there in 22 DAYS. And he still hasn't found a place to live. He lives in the barracks and hasn't even made an appointment to look for a single place.

I'm stressed beyond belief. And he doesn't understand why this is makong me upset. He has 22 days to find a place and sign a lease or I'm going to get down there with 2 dogs and all of my furniture and have no where to stay.

Am I not allowed to be upset?

Am I really overreacting?