Should I break up with him?

I have been with my boyfriend for three years. I genuinely love and care for him, but recently it has been feeling like I give more than he does and I’m not talking about money, or presents, just in general. I always make plans because he doesn’t know what he wants to do or he can’t come up with something to do. I’m always driving him everywhere and helping him when it comes to meal prep and buying things that he needs. Last year I got him a MacBook for Christmas and the year before I got him a pair of headphones (kinda pricey headphones). This year I didn’t get a birthday card, flowers or a present. I have made it clear that I’m not in this relationship for material stuff, but a simple birthday card would have been enough. My mom asked what we did for my birthday and I had to lie to her because I couldn’t say that he didn’t get me anything, and that he didn’t plan anything. He says he doesn’t make me happy, but that he wants me to be happy. He says I’m too good for him and that he’s not enough for me. I have asked him if he wants to break up and he always says no, but that he knows I can find someone better. I don’t want to be seen as the victim, I’m just a confused 22 year old, Who doesn’t have anyone to talk about this so I’m asking for advice. I know I’m a difficult person and that I’m hard to deal with, but I don’t know if I should stay in this relationship.