My SO and I have been going through a rocky patch. And he tells me that due to all the stress in our relationship he can’t help but check out other women. What would you do ladies? I’m a lil numb.

I’m going through a very rough phase. And looking at the how much love this community has to offer, I need a little support and maybe some guidance.

I’m battling an autoimmune disease. I’m recovering from a recent major surgery and I’m in the throes of depression (yesterday I was about to go buy some blades to cut myself...just to be able to feel some other kind of pain. I didn’t buy them releasing how ludicrous it is. I used to cut myself as a kid)

And my career is like a leaf in the wind. No direction at all. Too top all this off, the man I thought I’d marry (the one thing that I considered to be perfect) now seems to be falling out of love with me. Numbness, that’s all I feel. I didn’t even get angry when he told me that....no emotion at all...he might as well be talking about the weather.