We’ve been together for years and now he’s on all kinds of dating apps and talking to all these women and when he gets the chance to leave the house for a day or as long as he could postpone coming home he does I’ve asked him if he wants to split and he says no I asked if he wanted to date other women on the side so I at least know he’s with other women and I don’t get stds but he says no I even went as far as to tell him I won’t be with other men when he’s with these women what does he want