Seman Analysis.. Fertility Specialist referral

So my doctor referred me to a fertility specialist this morning... 😭 i had the initial tests done and he doesn’t know why i havnt got pregnant yet. I asked if my husband can do a seman analysis before i see a fertility specialist because It sounds very expensive... so that’s what we are going to do.. the problem is, my husband is REFUSING to do It. He gets very nervous about this stuff. He doesn’t even like to use public restrooms that’s just how he is. He wants a baby more than i do but he’s refusing to do this 😩 I’m hoping to talk to him more after work today...

anyone else’s husband have to do this? I just need to talk to someone about this and seeing a fertility doc. It sounds like it’s going to drown me in medical expenses.. 😭😭