Need help with potty training 2 year old girl!!

You guys potty training my 1st child is so hard for me😭 it’s like she know how to pee & poop in the toilet but she won’t use it unless I take her to the potty. I bought her some training panties a couple of days ago but idk if she knows the difference in those and pull-ups. She’s 2 1/2. Being a mother is the hardest job ever!!! I told my mom I was going to potty train my baby that’s due next month, at 6 months 😂😂 lmaooo. But fr, how did y’all get your kids potty trained?