My husband has become very inattentive to me in bed. I’ve explained to him that it takes me longer than him and for a while it was really good. Now it’s like he’s frustrated that it takes me so long. Anymore, he literally tries to shove it in before I’m even wet and doesn’t listen to me or acts offended when I tell him I’m not ready. I love him but I also really really want to enjoy sex again. What can I do to spice things up? Or how can I tell him I’m not getting satisfied? He is extremely sensitive and acts like I’ve broken his heart when I try to talk to him about this.