Am I wrong?

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Whenever we go out he dances with a lot of different girls I get jealous I tell him and he doesn't stop yesterday it got out of control I hit him he broke up with me first time I disrespect him by hitting him his never hit me or anything like what I did to him 😳 I know I'm wrong for hitting him.  Am I wrong to get jealous about him dancing around or letting other females dance on him? Idk what to do😢😢😢😢

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You weren't wrong for being jealous... he was definitely wrong for disrespecting your feelings like that. If you told him that it made you uncomfortable and he did it anyway, that's just wrong. But you were wrong for hitting him, yes. No matter how angry someone makes you, physical violence is never okay in a relationship. It's probably a good thing that you broke up, you both need some time and space to figure things out.

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He should have stopped when you asked, I would be furious if my husband did that stuff. You have every right to be jealous

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Uh yea u were wrong for hitting him but please don't let him use that to make u feel bad and forget the orig reason the fight started....ur man should never dance with another woman period! That's beyond disrespectful and that's a sign of what ull have to look forward to If u continue with him.....

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I can't read this. You need to add periods.

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Yea u wrong because if u don't like it then dance with him. Obviously he's dancing with the other girls because u just standing there. You can't put your hands on him because u upset what happens when the tables turn?

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No your not wrong.. if he knows it upsets you when he does that he should have enough respect to not do it. In front of you or at all for that fact. He should be dancing with.you as you are his girlfriend. I know it's just dancing and he goes home with you at the end of the night but there's lines that should be drawn. And hitting is never the right answer.

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It's all about your preference. If you're uncomfortable with it, then he should respect that. However, hitting is ALWAYS a no-no! There seems to be a lack of respect here from the both of you. There's something wrong there. He's being mentally and psychologically abusive and you are being physically abusive.

What's really going on here? There's more to the story.

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It's okay to be upset, but you're completely wrong for putting your hands on him.

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I think it's totally understandable that you're upset with him about dancing with other girls and letting them dance on him; I'd be upset too. Do you think that maybe he does it because it makes you jealous and/or he's trying to sabotage the relationship?

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