Does money matter?💰

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I wanna know if females still date guys who are broke and be completely honest it doesn’t matter how old you are I wanna hear your opinions, just think about him not buying you flowers or taking you out? because nowadays girls expect so much

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I wouldn't date a broke loser that played video games all day... but if a guys gets up every morning and goes to his job even if it doesn't pay well I can respect that.
I dont need to be rich but I do like being comfortable and able to give my children a nice home and opportunity in life.

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My husband was absolutely broke when we met. Like living with his parents and his car had a hole in the roof broke. We now live in a 5 bedroom house and I stay home with our 4 kids. What mattered to me was that he was disciplined, not lazy, smart,  hard working. He was in a bad spot, but he wasn't a lazy ass mooch. So yeah our dates were me cooking,  renting movies, occasionally Pollo tropical type places LOL but I didn't care. But a lazy ass mooch who is doing nothing to achieve anything and happy letting mommy or the government take care of him. ....bye.

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It doesn't matter, but having a strong work ethic does matter quite a bit.

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I’ve learned my lesson not to. Just got used and taken advantage of and cheated on. He was unstable. Couldn’t keep jobs. I felt bad and took care of him. And it bit me in the butt. While I was working and taking care of him and cleaning up all his messes that cost me a fortune because he was so irresponsible, he had tickets all over town that he neglected that would turn into warrants and arrests and bail that could have been dealt with ages ago but instead figured I loved him and would take care of it... mind you he was sleeping with everyone he could get his hands on while I worked and kept things afloat. So needless to say, he doesn’t have to be a doctor but he does have to be working and able to take care of himself, I don’t care what kind of job it is, he parks cars to a security guard a garbage man etc something is  better than nothing and I will never make the mistake again of taking care of a man that can’t take care of himself.

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My boyfriend quit his job and moved to the cities to be with me, his dad thinks I'm taking advantage of him but when we got together he moved down here with no money, no job, and his car barely worked. Instead of leaving him I got him a job, which in turn got him money and a different car. He loves me unconditionally and I love him unconditionally.

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I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost 9 months and we have only been on 2 dates. Money doesn’t matter to me. We have responsibilities that are more important than going out. We spend time together at home and that’s okay with us.

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It doesn’t matter to me. I’m not the type to want flowers sent to me. And I’m okay with just going to Wendy’s and paying for our own food. We don’t have to spend a lot of money to have fun or show we care about one another

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it depends on what kind of broke they are, if they don’t have a job and doesn’t care about getting one then no but if they work or are actively looking for a job then yes. money isn’t a necessity for be but their drive, and priorities is important

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To be honest, it depends 
In my eyes, if you're in your twenties and broke, it's pretty normal because you're just starting out and getting yourself together. If you're say 40 though and constantly broke, have never been financially stable, and don't have plans to be, I'd find that concerning. This doesn't include circumstances such as a job loss or relocating, or other specific circumstances. 
People need time to get started, and shit happens and people lose jobs, ect, and people aren't normally born with a thick wallet. That's totally fine and normal. But I would find it concerning if they were older and had never not been broke. Id wonder if they were bad with thier finances, if they lacked ambition, if they had an issue with something like gambling, ect
And of course it's not a one size fits all, but those would be my initial thoughts if we were just getting to know each other still

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I dated a few guys where I made more money than them (sometimes it was a LOT more). I had no issues picking up the tab for the both of us. Some were going through a rough spot in life and were having difficulties finding work. I did, however, find it a huge turn off when one showed he was just lazy and didn't really want to work. I will be supportive during someone's slump, but I don't support people that don't want to work when given the opportunity. Our goals just don't align in that case.

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