Do I end it?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for three weeks now. I am very aware that this is not long at all, but I’m just not happy. We had been talking for about 3-4 weeks beforehand, spending almost every other day together, so I felt that it was only necessary that we make things more official. I wanted to wait a couple more weeks to finally put a label on things, but he was very persistent and made it very clear that he wanted to make it official ASAP. As you can tell, I caved.

Now, I’m really starting to wish that I had waited those extra couple of weeks. I’m starting to get annoyed with little things that he does, and I feel like it can only get worse. I don’t get excited to see him anymore. Texting him almost feels like a chore. I’m just not happy. Not to mention, it is incredibly hard managing school, work, my sorority, a social life, AND a boyfriend.

The only thing keeping me from ending it now is that we’ve only been dating for three weeks. I don’t know if this is something that I’ll get over or if I’m just feeling right now because commitment hasn’t always been my thing. But I don’t want to drag it out for another two months if I’m just going to continue being unhappy.

I’ve talked to a couple of my friends about it, but really what I’m looking for are a few unbiased opinions. Should I end it? How do I even go about it?

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