Cannot make my husband orgasm

Should I take this personally? I’ve been making an attempt to be spontaneous and exciting to try to get him excited and each time he gives an excuse for why he can’t orgasm and tells me I missed my “window” a few days ago I get it I was teasing him and when he would get close I would stop but tonight I was legit waiting for him to cum and he got up after a drink spilled and said I missed my window, He them stormed off for a cigarette. I lay here crying thinking I can’t even excite my husband anymore