Breakup, am I wrong?
So my bf of 2 yrs broke up with me today. I’m really really sad but at the same time relieved, keep in mind I gave this guy my EVERYTHING, Like I’m going to miss him so fucking much and I KNOW he’s going to regret it. (Short back story, basically I repeatedly told him I need him to checkup on me everyday, just a quick text/call. But that was too much for him. Said I was overreacting when I confronted him about my feelings and whatever) if he comes back, I don’t think I’m going to take him back. It was just such a toxic, controlling, one sided and unbalanced relationship. He was always trying to control everything I did/say/planned on doing. It was super irritating and always expected me to please him in every way possible. He had super unrealistic expectations from me but still considered himself a “simple” guy. Like no you’re not you’re the pickiest mf prick I know. And I’m just so relieved bc I was always worried about when I was going to see him again or if we were going to talk on that day, I know super clingy, but I can’t help it that’s how I am. And I wasn’t asking for much. 10 seconds out of his day really. That’s not bad at all. If I didn’t call or text him he wouldn’t bother trying to check up on me very often. He would do it every now and then but not consistent at all. So I would purposely not call or text bc I wanted him to show some effort in us. I told him “the effort you put into someone is the reflection of your interest in them” He always made me feel bad for wanting his attention. Idk but I feel like im stronger and I feel free. Like now I can do whatever I want. Literally whatever I want. He was always like a second dad. Super frustrating. But I truthfully don’t know how I’m feeling. I’m okay rn but earlier I was throwing up and I couldn’t breathe right. I was crying so fucking hard man. But I’m totally okay now. Is it wrong of me to want him to talk to me everyday even if it’s just one “good morning have a great day”? Like yea I know you have school and work and the gym and other things too but he just really made me feel like I wasn’t worth his time at all. Doing everything but sending one quick text. I’m not asking for much... right? I was able to tolerate it before but I told him I wouldn’t anymore bc I’m drained from always repeating my boundaries/needs/wants/expectations. And it’s like he gets mad at me for having feelings. For feeling a certain way about things. Which is how we got into the argument in the first place. I’m sorry I’m typing too much 😭
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