Red flags my dude

I started talking to this guy literally 2 whole days ago and I’ve recently ended a long term relationship and he asked me on a date and I said yes.

But then I thought maybe im going way too fast and I don’t want him to be a rebound. I need to slow down, I need to be on my own. It’s best for both him and I that way. So I told him that I feel like I need to slow down and move the date back to when I feel ready but we can continue talking.

He turned it into “how can you do this to me.” “You can’t do this to someone like me I feel too much. Don’t ever fucking talk to me again.” And I was like oh my god dude, we are not dating. I sent “you’re mad because I said I’m not ready to date? I’m allowed to have my feelings and change my mind and do what I want. I could have just blocked your number and never talked to you again but no I told you what’s going on and why I’m choosing to slow down. If you want to never talk to me again that’s fine because this is crazy anyways.”

And he sent back just a bunch of sob story shit like “you might as well never talk to me. Im a cloud of depression and misery and misery loves company.”

Clearly man, clearly. I fully agree because you cannot make it more clear that you are emotionally manipulative. 2 days, TWO DAYS.. and that was just a way to make me feel bad for not doing what you want.

This type of shit makes me want to become an abstinent hermit because I attract the crazies