The guy that raped me 2 years ago won’t stop contacting me

In December 2017 a guy named “Josh” raped me. We were at his house, and he wouldn’t stop touching me. I asked him to stop nicely a couple of times and he wouldn’t, but eventually he did when I threatened to yell (he was staying at his cousins house) he apologized and said “I just can’t help it you’re too thick” 🤢

I was stupid enough to forgive him and we hung out the next night. He came to my place. We were making out, then my pants came off and he started eating my ass. Next thing I know I feel him put his penis on my butt, and I said “what are you doing??” And he said “relax, I’m not going to put it in.” Then, he does. And he continues to even me telling him to stop over and over again, with me putting my hand back there to stop him. It was so painful.... I’ve never done anal before. I finally get away and I ask him “what the fuck is wrong with you?” And he acts oblivious. I told him to get out and he acts like I’M the crazy one. I block him immediately on everything.

It’s now September 2019 and he still tries to get into contact with me.

For a while, he would add me from all these different Snapchats, begging me for a chance. I even at one point sent a picture of my boyfriends arm and said “I’m in a relationship stop contacting me.” He asked “really? I have no chance?” And I said “no.” And he said okay, and I didn’t hear from him for a while. But then it started again.

About a year ago I saw him at the gym, and part of me wanted to hide and leave, but part of me wanted to show him that he’s not going to ruin my workout and I’m going to finish it. I was doing leg extensions and he was on bench press with all his friends. I saw him point to me, his friends looked at me, and then they started snickering. That made me livid. I left and called my boyfriend and told him about it.

He’s added me from different snaps again, he added me on Facebook on his old account, and he even followed me from his lawn mowing business page on Instagram today. The worst part is, he’s had a girlfriend since he raped me, and they just had a baby. I never reported the rape, so I don’t know what to do at this point besides continue to block every thing he sends... but every time I get something I have to see his face and it brings back really disgusting memories.

What can I do??

**my accounts ARE private. And after not responding to his 20+ adds and endless messages is when I did reply one time telling him I was in a relationship. It obviously didn’t work.

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