Can't have sex without a condom :/

So yeah, I've been on the pill from a young age, In my earlier sexual encounters I used a condom all the time as double protection and STD protection. I always insisted on it and still do in New relationships.

However with 6 of my trusted partners (over the last few years) we have tried to have "raw". It feels good... While it lasts...

Every time I've tried it goes something like this:

*Guy probes around for the right hole, finds it, slides in*

*Guy stammers through some comment about how tight it is or how close we feel*

*Guy pulls back to thrust, slides back in, makes guy pleasure noises, repeat this 3 to 10 times*

*Guy stammers out apology as he comes way earlier than either of us wanted him to*

This scenario plays itself out for me with shocking familiarity each and every time, it happens with the same guys that can give me a proper pounding with a condom, but the moment that barrier is gone, were back to this same ole scenario.

Anyone else experienced this? I'm tempted to just "take the training wheels off" with my current bf and just make him deal with it until he can handle it better.