Was I in the wrong???

It’s long so sorry...

Okay, so noon my boyfriend comes home from work, he goes to our oldest daughters room and hes reading a book to her, I bring our newborn in there and put her on the bed so I can go wash clothes quick (we live in an apartment building) and I was going to take my oldest daughter, once I laid our newborn down not even two minutes he gets up and goes to our room (get comfy clothing on) so I go back to our oldest daughters room and grab the baby and bring her to the living room because I figured he’d come out there, so baby is screaming crying because I put her down, I go make a bottle, he come out and goes to her and says “why you crying blah blah blah your bottles coming” I bring the bottle to him then I grab the clothes I was going to wash and our oldest daughter and as soon as I’m about to go out the door I hear him mutter something under his breath something about weed, I thought I heard “can’t even smoke weed once I’m off work” I don’t know something like that so I pause by the door and I say, “what?” Then he goes “was I talking to you?” So I bring my ass back and go to him and tell himto just give me the bottle and baby and to go fucking smoke... he’s got mad and said no, just go do the laundry I’ll watch her. And I was like hell nah, I snatch the bottle from him then grabbed her and he got more pissed... I told him “go fucking smoke already, why tf are you crabby when I haven’t done anything.” Then he said “you didn’t think I was going to watch her because once I left our oldest daughters room you went and got her” like yes I went to get her because i assumed you’d come to the living room?? Like tf. And he said that didn’t make sense. But whatever i said just go smoke I’m not going to wash, and just get out of the TVs way so I can watch, and then he got more pissed and said “I’m about done, this is my fucking apartment, you can leave whenever & you won’t talk to me like that blah blah blah” I just continues to say “idc dude just go fucking smoke.” So he ended up going to our room sat there for awhile while I watched baby and played with my oldest in her room, after awhile I go put baby in the living room in her swing and watch tv, he then goes in our oldest daughters room and plays with her... time goes by I don’t hear stuff for awhile I thought he had been reading to her quietly so I go check on her and she’s there alone watching a movie he put on for her and he is gone, I look out the window, car is gone. He didn’t tell me he was leaving or anything, I didn’t hear him leave. He hasn’t texted me saying where he left or whose he with or ANYTTHING.. and I haven’t text him because well I’m with our girls so whatever idc. It is now 8 pm and it’s pouring out raining with lighting and thunder and he is still gone with NO WORD. I haven’t checked on him to see where he’s at, because if I were to text him he’d just tell me shit I’m sure. I honestly want an apology or something because literally all I did was move out newborn from our daughters room to the living room . Yes i told him shit because he got mad at me but really am i in the wrong at all??? Did I even deserve to get yelled at? I’m seriously getting fed up where I just want to leave and go back to my parents.

(I’m 22 SAHM, he’s 26 works full time)