Going to stop “trying”

I just got married and since getting married we’ve been TTC. We’ve been trying for the past 3 cycles. 1st cycle was a chemical pregnancy (which was a real bummer because I thought I was pregnant from just the first time trying!) and AF came the last 2.

I got opk tests and used them on the last 2 cycles to really try!! And I always check Glow to see when I’m the most fertile on top of that.

But I feel like I haven’t been enjoying sex lately because I feel like we’re doing it just to increase the chances of getting pregnant and we haven’t been having fun with it.

My period ends in a few days and I decided that this month, I’m going to stop “trying” so hard. I’m going to stop using the opk tests and not check Glow to see when I’m most fertile. I need to have fun with it and just enjoy.

Yes, I still want to get pregnant, but I need to enjoy the process more and I think this will help. ☺️

I don’t know why I’m posting this, but I just feel good about it so I wanted to share. 😊