Baby measuring under- VENT

Sorry this going to be long but just need to vent. I had a midwives appointment at 10.30am just for a general check up 1st they run an hour late then I see a doctor instead who measures my belly and says I'm measuring 3 weeks behind but says don't worry but then goes and orders an urgent growth scan, she also ordered a non stress test which took over an hour. I didn't leave the hospital until 1.30 pm only to have to go back at 3.30 for the growth scan. At the growth scan turns out I have 2 placenta lobes and babies belly is on the 4.2% and my cervix is 1.3cm the ultrasound tech said I should have my cection asap (scheduled for c section on the 20/10) go back to see the doctor who gets the head doctor to come and tell me they aren't going to the section but want me to come back every 2nd day for a non stress test. I'm frustrated as I feel my baby would be much better off out and going back and forth to the hospital is a pain as I have 5 year old and a 22 month old. Sorry just had to get it out.