Sex life after baby

Can you ladies give me some insight on your sex life after your little one? Me and my husband weren’t really intimate during my whole pregnancy. Like a few times here and there but not much at all.

I feel bad for him and understandably he is pretty frustrated as I have had no sex drive even after having her. It’s not that I’m not attracted to him I just don’t really need to have sex.....

Well I made a suggestion to maybe go to a store and “spice things up” and now he’s offended and saying that why should we need to spice things up if you don’t even have a sex drive so you say.....

Like wtf do I even do or say. He’s clearly hurt and upset but I didn’t not expect my suggestion to further complicate and upset the situation. He’s frustrated that he has to initiate the sex and says he feels like I see it as something to “just get over with”.... which I won’t lie, sometimes I do.

HELP