Irrational vent!

I feel so frustrated and a bit disconnected. I am 20w with my first and he is super active. Except for when i talk to him or try to interact with him. He hears hubbys voice and goes crazy! Someetimes my husband isnt even close to me abd baby seems to hear and kick in his direction. I already feel like baby loves him more than me. Idk why i feel like this, its soo silly! When he hears me everything stops moving!! I should add that i have a stepson whom obviously favors dad so i feel super left out like every one loves dad but not me