Are you or your parents divorced?

My parents divorced when I was in the summer of my 4th grade year. Ever since then it's caused nothing but pain for my siblings and I. We have been to meditation multiple times and constantly bouncing back and forth between our parents. I had vowed to never get married and put my future kids through that, but that was until I met the man I'm with now. We still aren't married yet but I can actually see myself marrying him and it scares the shit out of me, but it also makes me really happy.

I feel like the majority of people either have divorced parents or are divorced themselves and it makes me so sad. I don't know many people who have been married long, unless it's older people such as grandparents. They're from a different time than us too though so it makes me wonder if that's why. It makes me question a lot about marriage and fear it altogether.

Anyways, what are your thoughts? Have you been divorced before? Are your parents divorced? If so, how long were you and your SO together before the separation? How old were you when your parents divorced?

Note: If it's too personal or upsetting then you don't have to answer. I'm not forcing anyone to do anything.