He’s forcing me and our child to travel overseas with him over the holidays and I had to pay my own ticket and sometimes he travels overseas by himself for fun. He doesn’t care if it bothers me. I didn’t want to travel anytime soon.

I’m a very clean and organized person but tonight he decided to “ re arrange” everything in the living room and dinning room and now it looks like a complete disaster. I’m soooo mad. Isn’t it a women’s job to decide how to decorate and arrange things in the house ????? Everything looks like a complete mess. I’m so mad I’m sleeping in the sofa tonight.

I feel he likes to disagree with me in everything and that makes him happy and likes things done his way only. I’m probably better off moving out by myself and avoid the constant stress.

I feel like lately he’s been doing things out of the ordinary just to piss me off and it’s really getting to me.

EDIT: okay I didn’t mean it like that when I said “ it’s a woman’s job”. The thing is my opinion on anything in the house doesn’t matter and I work and pay bills too. I think both of our opinions should matter.

But when it comes to cleaning and cooking and doing houses chores why doesn’t he offers to help or when I nicely ask him to help me with something he doesn’t .

I also posted the other day how he demands that I cook for him and make him breakfast everyday. I work full time and we have a 3 months baby together. I don’t feel respected. God forbid he comes home one day and there isn’t food ready to eat. I feel like a doormat.