So I’m a lesbian and I have a girlfriend and we’ve been together for a few months now and we don’t live near each other so I usually drive like 45-50 mins every week to see her. I don’t mind because I want to see her. So anyways everything has been fine and we’ve been good or so I thought and yesterday she told me that when I come up to see her on Friday that we have to talk. And immediately I knew that something was wrong because that’s not like her to say that.

So I get out of her that she says that she’s not inlove with me and that her feelings aren’t as strong as mine and that she likes me but not as much as I like her.

Listen I love her but I’m not inlove aswell and so I think those things happen with time. I enjoy spending time with her and I love her family and they love me but it’s like I just don’t know what to do. I asked her if she wanted to be with me and if she wanted to work it out but she just said I don’t know. She said she doesn’t know what she wants. And I just want some advice on what to do because it’s killing me RN