Would this hurt your feelings?

My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. He never lets me go through his stuff and he even yelled at me one time just for touching his weigher in his room and said he doesn’t feel comfortable when I touch his stuff. Well recently he’s made this new friend who’s lesbian and she sells him pot and she comes over to visit and he let her go through his entire room saying how cool she thinks everything is and he let her take a couple things and told her to look at whatever she wants. Would this hurt your feelings?