Relationship fear

So I’m in a new relationship and I’m very happy. I met the nicest guy.

We gel really well together and get along great!!

So we have some things in common but we also have some differences which I like.

I’ve been having a lot of anxiety since the relationship started because I’m scared of loosing him. He’s an amazing guy and this is my first real love so I’m scared.

That being said my brain keeps coming up with this false story that he is more fit for my friend. Mind you they never ever met, but they have a ton in common and I almost feel like....guilt for being with him and that she should.

They have the same amount of siblings, love the same movies, both have dogs, both have curly hair, both love the same shows, and I’m sure there’s more I’m forgetting.

I just wish my brain wouldn’t do this to me. I love him and he loves me so why am I sooo afraid that once they meet they will instantly fall in love????