Broke my 13 month celibacy journey

Ladies... I just wanna vent about this. So I went on a unplanned 13 months away from sex. I ended it on Monday. Long story short I realllly wanted to do it and felt all the sensations but couldn’t get wet like I wanted and it was painful.. during the session we had to stop multiple times due to pain. Tips on relaxation, stories on how you eased back into sex and natural lubrication tips!! Thanks