Just curious

My husband and I just had a baby . Of course everyone wanted to meet him. I told them to come see him . My family does and my husband moms said does . My husband dads side won’t. They haven’t met him and keep telling us to bring him to them. I feel that’s rude. They live 2 hrs away. Also, they don’t respect my no kissing rule and I just don’t wanna put myself in that predicament. He’s also never been close to his dads side they only have wanted to see my husband when they found out we was having a baby . They never made a effort as a kid either. So it don’t bother my husband much. They promised a baby shower and picked a date and made a lie 3days before saying no one would show up but had a party a few days after for someone else. Then said they bought us stuff when they never did.

So just curious what would u guys do?