You can’t turn someone gay. Can you really understand that dude? Just because they rejected your advances doesn’t make them homophobic at all. They have the right to refuse your advances. You’re making the gay community look bad.

Manipulation isn’t going to get you anywhere. And for the love of god if the manager is touching you sexually go report his ass. You say you don’t want him to because you’re scared of him but say you like it because at least you’re getting touched. Please please learn to gain self worth and want better for yourself. This pity party is not going to help you.

Story:

There’s this guy at work who is gay, and literally complains about everything in life. He complains about not having a relationship, but every time during lunch he’s talking about how sexy he is to his friends and stuff. Like just being over the top confident. He told how a manager is touching him inappropriately so any normal person would report that right? He was complaining about it so I suggested to report it. He’s like no it’s the only thing I can get and he makes me feel wanted. So why are you fussing about it ? I don’t understand. He tried hitting on the straight guy at work hoping to persuade him to be gay which is sort of manipulation especially if that person isn’t interested. So now that straight guy is labeled homophobic and to make it worse the guy that’s gay is going around saying the dude is harassing women (that’s a big accusation. I’ve dealt with the dude he says does this and so far he hasn’t made me uncomfortable but I also don’t know about the others ).

He thinks being loud and obnoxious means he’s just energetic. He says he’s so blunt because of how kinky he is like wtf. This is all heard at lunch because this dude speaks so loud to where everyone can hear everything. Literally he has the mentality of a child. So I’m ranting cause it’s like what the actual fuck.

He throws a pity party to make people feel sorry for him. “The oh poor me.” Then hours later be happy 😃. I’m just trying to understand what the hell is happening.

I feel like the gay community has come a long way and to have people that say they can turn a straight man guy is ridiculous because that man was probably already gay but in the closet and wasn’t ready to come out. An actual straight man isn’t going to turn gay.