Maybe I’m just crazy?

In a relationship, you have to remember it’s not just you. Two people in a relationship is not only called a relationship but a team. IF you plan on being with someone long term, when you mention the future, you should use words like “We”, “Us” and Our”. If not, the excluded partner may need to potentially construct plan B. You have to pay attention to the little things because if you don’t, before you know it, you’ll have a failed relationship and any progress you thought you had with your SO will be nonexistent.