My boyfriend doesn’t like me having a good job
Okay the title might be a stretch but it’s how I am feeling right now
I got a job offer to be a nanny for a family where I’d make $1,200 a week.... the literal ONLY down side about ALL of it is that I’d have to drive an hour to the families home.... which at that point with that much money every week, I’d drive to fucking narnia for them
Anyway... my boyfriend doesn’t want me to do it because the hours are 2pm- 9pm... the reason being that he doesn’t want me to do it is because he says he would never get to see me
Just for clarification... I live alone, and he lives with his parents still... he stays over at my house like 2-3 nights a week but that’s it... he doesn’t pay any bills at my house, he doesn’t help clean my house etc. which I don’t have an issue with since it’s MY house
My point is that I’m 21 and I feel like me working goofy hours and us not being able to see each other during the week is not a big deal... we’ve been together for 2 and a half years and I feel like it’s a small price to pay for me being able to pay my bills and then have some extra money to put into a savings account
I got another job offer where they are only willing (barely) to pay $300 a week and he wants me to take that job so that I can still see him during the week
I don’t know what is in his head but for some reason he thinks that by me getting home at night time then that means that he can’t still go to my house and hang out there until I get home from work
I’m annoyed because I turned down the job with a lot of money because he talked me out of it and now he doesn’t want me to take the job where they want to pay $300 a week because the woman’s brother lives at the house and she said he’d sometimes be home sleeping there because he works night shifts... so now he says he’s uncomfortable and doesn’t want me working there either
I’m currently working as a nanny for a single father where I’m making barely $100 a week... I’m literally broke to the point where I have to ask my parents for money for gas and food
I’m so fucking frustrated.... honestly a part of me feels like he doesn’t want me to take the job with $1,200 a week bc he doesn’t want me making more money then him
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