Boyfriend issues 😪

Soo me and my boyfriend have been arguing a lot this month. We have a 1 year old together. Apparently my priorities as a mother are not in check and I don’t care about our relationship. He’s the type of guy that wants to stay home ALL THE TIME. He never wants to go out as a couple or as a family.we did nothing with our 1 year old for Halloween because it’s “too cold”.He said it’s because he doesn’t want to spend money but he makes great money. Yesterday when we got into an argument he told me we don’t have great sex anymore because I don’t match his energy and I don’t know him spiritually. He also said that we’re no where near getting married. We’ve been together 10 years and I feel so unwanted 😥