Do your phones affect your sex life?

My husband and I spend more and more times on our phones. Watching movies, playing games, scrolling through Pinterest or whatever app. We get in bed and that's what we do. Our intimate moments seem to take the back burner. I think I see this more than my husband does. So I try to put down my phone and give him a chance. But he continues playing his games or whatever he is doing. So I go back to my phone because I am lonely. It's a huge turn off for him to play his game and set it down just to have sex with me and then he picks it back up right away after sex. He seems to have no interest in intimacy. Not just sex but talking and enjoying each other. I feel like I am competing with a little black rectangle. I have talked to him about phone addiction. Nothing changes it. I wish he would see what I see. It makes me really sad and I don't know what to do.