Husband hiding going to therapy

My husband and I have been married for about 10 months. After getting married, I wanted to TTC right away but he had some concerns and he decided to go to therapy to straighten his feelings about fatherhood.

That was not an issue for me. The issue was that he hid going to therapy from me for a couple of months...

Fast forward a few months, he agreed to TTC on his own without me asking. We conceived right away but unfortunately lost the baby a couple of weeks ago...

I discovered he took an appointment with his therapist for today and lied to me about where he is... (I discovered the appt while snooping in his phone -oops)

Should I be upset that he’s lying to me? I would not be upset about him going to therapy at all, if he was honest about it!

Should I be worried that losing this child is gonna scare him to TTC again? He did agree we will try again right away...

(He has been so great to me since the miscarriage. Has been extra supportive. And sweet. Just the perfect partner. )