I can’t seem to cum/squirt

I don’t know if I’m broken or there’s something wrong with me but no matter what I do I can’t make myself cum, neither can my boyfriend and we’ve tried almost everything :(( we’ve had amazing sex before and I’ve pleasured myself a good bit and all of it (the sex and self pleasure) pretty much always feels amazing but no matter what and no matter what I try I just can’t seem to cum/squirt and I don’t know why :(( it’s kinda making me feel down in the dumps honestly. Advice, suggestions, tips, etc. is very welcomed!!!

Edit: Yes I am aware of cumming and squirting being two different things. I just put both cause I view both as “finishing” in bed if that makes sense.