Can this work out?

I don’t really feel a “strong” attraction to my partner anymore. I think he’s attractive, but I don’t get the feeling to jump his bones. I think it’s because I’m more kinkier than he. I love spontaneous sex, I love passionate sex, and I want to be dominated. He, on the other hand is more reserved. He’ll only have sex right before bed, and I can always predict the positions and the timing. I’ve suggested spicing it up plenty of times. Last night in the middle of “doing it” I asked him to choke me and he flat out said no.. killed the whole mood. We still have sex often, but I think it’s just more because I want to have sex and he’s the person I should be doing it with (if that makes sense?) Idk what to do. Although I feel like I can cope with this, as I have before I kind of feel like it’s unfair to him.. I love, I really do, but I just don’t feel sexually attracted to him anymore. Is this something that could actually work out down the line.