What would you do

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My fiance told me last night that he has cheated on me with a guy four times. He said it was at the very beginning of our relationship early on because he didn't know what the relationship was even though I had said I love you to him already. Some have told me the past is in the past, some have told me to get out now. I love this man but I can no longer trust him or believe anything he says. I cant look him in the eye, nothing. What would you advise me to do?

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I think you already know what you want to do. Personally if I were in your shoes and couldn't even look at him, I would leave.

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No I am not sexually attracted to a man who is sexually attracted to a penis. Everyone is allowed to have personal preferences. He’s letting you know for a reason..coming out

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If the trust is gone why even keep trying?

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Likely he’s bisexual but Jesus Christ, cheating is cheating

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Personally I'd end it, but I don't put expiration dates on betrayals. He cheated on you multiple times and put you at risk of possibly catching an STI (irrelevant the gender of the people he cheated on you with). Then he decided to hide it from you for this long? He betrayed you, disrespected you and lied to you, that's a big no for me.

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If you don't feel like you are comfortable in that relationship, or if you can't trust your s/o, then I think you should break it off. I know that it's most likely going to be difficult but you need to do what's best for you.

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i would leave.

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I decided to not break up with him but DID put the engagement on hold. Took the ring off and told him I wont be putting it back on until I know he's ready and I can trust him, yes he fucked up but me being the person I am I'm giving him ONE more shot that I'm what he wants. Now that being said, I'm two days late...

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Well first of all he didn’t have to tell you but he did so good on him. Still doesn’t make what he did ok. Did you know he was bisexual before getting with him? I couldn’t care less if my other half was bisexual but if I had to find out mid relationship because they’d cheated, then I would be angry AF! 
The question is, do you want to leave it in the past? Also you need to ask him whether he’s bi or if this is his way of saying actually I like men better and then make your decision from there.

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