So disappointed in him 😔 UPDATE

I understand that every relationship has their ups and downs it's just how the cookie crumbles. My significant other and I had a really Rocky first couple years but we've been together for 8 years now and it's been awesome. Very minimal fights and more able to talk it out however this morning is a whole nother story!

I was cleaning up around the house and I asked if he would go to the trash can and push it down but he was telling me how if it needs to be pushed down it's too full blah blah blah but I was telling him to see if you could push it down! ( as you can see it's already super stupid) well he went from 0 to 100 in like one second he started cussing and yelling and throwing all kinds of boxes into the hallway saying let's just add more into the trash let's just do a fuckin dump run🤦‍♀️ he's grabbing bags of weeds from the backyard we still have yet to take it, he's like get the fuck out of my way cussing and throwing a grown-ass temper tantrum. I am so sad at this point because this is just so ridiculous. He grabs all his shit and he's like I'm leaving and I'm not coming back. I'm just sad and crying to myself as I'm cleaning the counters and he's like yeah keep crying fuck face and leaves.....

He left his wallet and his phone so I'm sure he'll be back but I'm extremely disappointed that he took it to this extent for absolutely nothing! I get he has been stressed because he got laid off because of a motorcycle accident and it's been really hard for everybody to find a job and bills just keep coming so I get it but that does not mean he should take his anger out on me. He's going to feel really bad I already know it but sometimes sorry is not going to cut it

Update: so this is only like 4 hours later.. he finally comes home and still has a pissy attitude. He still is throwing his keys down and hat im just like why did you come back! He was telling me how pissed off I made him because I wouldn't listen!! Like wtf! I finally told him I know he is mad about other things and its easier to blame me for something he actually could care less about! He agreed but still can't own up to it! He hates being wrong clearly but he left once again🤦‍♀️ so idk when or if he will come back... this is out of control and really abnormal so again I am extreamly disappointed in him!

It's my last day of fall break before I have to go back to work.. what a day😞