Fighting

My best friend and I just got into a big fight and I am honestly really hurt now and I’m sure he’s hurt too and idk what do when I see him tomorrow. He has been going through a lot but he never talks to me about it and I want to know but I never push him into telling me if he doesn’t want to. But tonight he told me that I wouldn’t understand how he was feeling because I have so many good things in my life and so there’s no way I could understand. I told him my life is not perfect and I’ve talked to him about things I’ve never told anyone else and I’m hurt that he thinks my life is so perfect even though I’ve told him all the things that have happened and I told him he hasn’t even given me a chance to determine whether I understand it or not because he won’t tell me. I was offended that he would say I can’t possibly struggle with things just because I have things going for me and he told me I act like my life is so bad when really it’s not and I said I know that I have a lot of things that are good and I really am grateful for those things but saying that isn’t fair because I have my own struggles that I’ve talked to him about but he doesn’t understand it. and when he told me to list 5 things that weren’t going for me I did and then he told me I won. I said this isn’t a competition and he said I was making it into one. I’m honestly so confused and I didn’t think what I was saying and how I was feeling was wrong. He got angry at me and told me he got drunk to get away from this but then I just brought him right back into it and then he told me he can’t deal with this and he hung up on me. He texted me back right after talking about how he was sorry for blowing up on me and I said I don’t like fighting with him and I don’t mean to do it. And I said sorry for making his night even shittier and he just ignored me so idk what I’m supposed to do when I see him.