I’m done

WEEKS! I’ve been dealing with it for WEEKS!

Our 4 month old use to sleep 10 hours a night since 1 month old. Now for the past 3 weeks he doesn’t sleep at all. We can’t go more than 45 minutes without him waking up. We tried weaning the swaddle and for over a week only got as far as 1 arm out with 0 improvement. We swapped arms with no difference. We went cold turkey for almost a week and that was only worse. So we just went back to swaddling for the past 3 days and he slept for 3 hours and that’s it. We tried the swing, holding him, wearing him. Nothing gives.

I’m done. I’m fucking tired. He needs to sleep or I’m going to lose my god damn mind!

Someone help. I know we have the 4 month sleep regression, but it’s been 3 weeks and this started before he turned 4 months old.