All so different

So i have 4 boy's, and there all completely different. In looks and personalities. I get so fed up hearing the gender stereotypes. Anybody else feel this way! Or the usual comments of poor you and oh you must want a girl. Or you trying for a girl, boy's are lazy boy's leave you. The list is endless. Really drives me nuts. These people have no idea, what ive coped with mentally. I have suffered with GD since my first son who is 18, i still long for a dd every day. People have no idea how much there comments hurt. The best one is oh a son's a son till he meets his wife, a daughter is a daughter for the rest of your life. Oh only if he gets with a bunny boiler haha.