Taking my infant out to for thanksgiving?

Alright mommies I'm posting this in some other groups just to see what advise or if ppl felt comfortable taking their baby to a family gathering I hope you understand and not give negative comments if you see this post elsewhere 😊 thanks ladies.

Alright so my two month old got his first round of shots almost 3 weeks ago.. I'm a ftm so I question everything you know I read so much on baby's and you know we see posts on here of like ppl not being vaccinated that post on here of a baby passing away at 30 days old because of the whooping cough just broke my heart and it left me even more paranoid.. now from my understanding we're going over to my uncle's house for thanksgiving in overall 9 ppl will be there my cousins and aunt I would like to go and literally once we get there say no kissing the baby please it's flu season and cold sore season also before I go I would like to call before hand and ask if anyone is sick or coughing just to save myself sometime and not go hubby tells me that I could come of as rude but he totally understands.. What are yalls plans for the holidays? & any advice you can give... please be nice 😅 I'm just a ftm.