Quitting coffee for pregnancy

So whenever I finally get my bfp I cant decide if it's best to wean off coffee or cut it cold Turkey? What did you ladies do? Of course I'll consult my doc about it when the time comes but it seems to be on my mind a lot since I drink it at least once or twice a day.

Some have told me cold Turkey is risky bc of withdrawal but I dont get intense withdrawal just a headache and moody. And I dont think I trust myself to wean properly. I've also heard decaf isnt all safe either?

Thanks in advance!