What would you do?

Question

If you boyfriend of almost 7 years with whom you’re expecting your first child with in a few weeks, tells you he loves you but no longer has a connection with you, says you’re both drifting apart, that you don’t have things in common anymore, and that you’re just two different people... what would you do? Walk away? Or try to rekindle things? 
I’m truly hurt by this. I feel so lost and confused. 
No, he isn’t cheating.

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Try to rekindle things. I wouldn't make a huge decision during a life event. Maybe he is having a hard time connecting with the pregnant version of you. Maybe he is freaked out about the baby. I would give it some time and find out what exactly he feels has changed.

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I'd talk to him more about what the options are moving forward.

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Counseling

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Walk away.

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Love isnt a feeling, it's a choice. So I'd try to work things out. Maybe instead of focusing so much on the baby right now, take some time to focus on your relationship. Have a date night out, talk. Find things you enjoying doing together. It's easy after a long time together to say the spark is gone and that's when choosing to love someone comes in. And if it really comes down to it, I'd seek counseling. I wouldn't throw away 7 years together and split your family apart because of this. I would do everything in my power to fix it

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Try to fix it. I wouldn't walk away cause of that. I've felt lost in my relationship before but we worked it out. I consider that vital in my relationship that we be willing to work stuff out. If you're not the type that wants to do that then leave i guess

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I would think he’s experiencing some serious cold feet or even depression about embarking on fatherhood and it’s making him emotionally run away from things he knows.

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