Am I wrong?

So my husband family lives 8 hours away. We were supposed to drive up there at the end of October but we ended up baptizing our 10 month old so instead his family came down.

For the past month I been feeling so nauseous, tired, and dizzy. I went to the doctor and they told me my vitamins were low. They did a blood pregnancy test and it came back negative. I continued to feel the same so I finally decided to do another pregnancy test at home. Which was positive. I went back to the doctor and they confirmed I was 9 weeks via ultrasound. Thing is I feel soo sick I can barely make it through the day and my husband still wants us to go for thanksgiving, which is also my birthday.

Tonight I made a comment and said “babe I don’t know how I’ll be feeling next week” and he looked at me and said “if you are sick you are sick”

I didn’t know what he meant but I decided not to say anything. A minute later he says “I already told my family we were coming for the holidays, plus we have not been there since July. (We are also going for 10 days for Christmas)

I tried to explained to him although we have not been there since July, they came down almost every month since so it’s not like we have not seen his family.

Then he replies with “fine then I’ll just go with the baby”

That broke my heart in so many ways.

1 because our baby is exclusively breastfed

And 2 because I can’t believe my husband is so in compassionate about how I’m feeling.

Am I wrong for feeling like this? Or is it my hormones?