Secret baby mama

When I first met my bf he said he didn’t have kids. Then I seen him messaging this girl during our chill time after work . He was checking on her which I don’t care care I’m not insecure. I ask who she was cuz I never seen her before and we’ve been together a year . He then says They had a baby on the way and she miscarried before finding out the gender and when I asked him when he’s just like it was way before I met you and didn’t want to talk about it I’m like fine . Me being nosey I went to her profile and she put 2 kids in her bio and both were living . Not one with the angel emoji by it or anything .

How would y’all feel in this situation?

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I’m not saying the kids are his but I never had to deal with a guy talking to an ex before . And I don’t want to be mean cuz I guess they did almost have a baby . But if it’s that serious shouldn’t he be woth her then?

Jess ...insecurity has nothing to do with me going to see who she is for myself . I just found out that my bf almost had a child in the past which he could’ve been told me about . Insecurity would’ve been me telling him to stop talking to her or feeling like she could end our relationship. I didn’t say because they almost had a baby they should be together. I’m saying if he feels the need to leave out he almost had a kid and still talk to her then he should be woth her . Please comprehend better and don’t be my psychiatrist🤫