What should I do?

Question

So I’m 29 weeks pregnant and my husband doesn’t help me with anything. I work a full time job on my feet, come home clean the house and make sure he is taken care of. I ask him to rub my back when we get in bed, he looks at me like I’m crazy and rolls over to go to sleep. Am I doing something wrong?

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I wouldn’t ￼necessarily stop all cleaning so he realizes what you do, that’s just petty. Have a serious conversation with him about it and tell him you need help around the house and things need to change. If they don’t change it’s only going to get 10x worse when baby comes and cause all sorts of problems.

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First he's not helping you,  didn't  he had to eat,  needed clean clothes, didnt he poo in the toilet??  Or he's a robot and you the only human in the household that does those things ? I would have serious conversation and express that he did not come out of my vagina and I'm not hes mother or maid and that if he doesn't pick up the slack you won't be doing for him.  
Sorry but today is the second time I read on these app about husband / boyfriend / partner not helping , it's not helping when it's their own house,  dishes,  toilet do you know what I mean??  
And it's not petty at 29 weeks,you are creating a whole human being and thats tiring,  he need to step up and grow up or crawl back to he's mothers womb seriously. You deserve to put your feet up after full day at work.

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I’m going through the exact same thing. I’ll be 29 weeks tomorrow and also have a 3 year old daughter. It’s a real struggle trying to get any help around our house with anything. I have severe back pain and sometimes can’t even walk through our house because of it. Also, I’m high risk and need to stay off of my feet a lot. We lost our daughter in January, she was born at home, and I nearly bled to death before the ambulance arrived. I just feel like I should be getting some help with the things that have to be done. It’s a really lonely feeling and I don’t know what to do anymore.

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You need to talk to him now, if not it will probably be worse once the baby is here

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Dont do anything for him. Let him see how much u do. He is takin advantage

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No you’re not. Just stop doing what you’re doing around the house. Let him realize what all you do for him.

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