So I was about to tell my mom

Background: my mom is a judgy person who is super sensitive and loses it when she doesn't get her way. There are a bunch of traumatic times during my childhood and bottom line I'm just not close to her. We talk every once in a while on the phone and see each other once or twice a month if that.

Today I was gonna tell her over the phone that I'm pregnant. Granted I'm 13 weeks now and still am not married. My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 years now and live in a nice house together. When we went house shopping, all it was, "When are you getting married?" Not anytime soon (both of our parents have divorced and we like our dynamic without a piece of paper)

We've lived in this house for a year now and it's a matter of us getting married soon so she can stop being embarrassed when talking about our living situation to relatives and friends....why are you even worried or talking about our living arrangements...anyways...

Today I was about to tell her over the phone so I could get it over with...not even a hello when I answered but I got a "You seem mad...are you upset at not being married yet now?"

I literally only said Hello how are you!

I was like you know what mom, my bad I have to go now and answer the other line.

Smdh....I hate judgy people and I can just imagine how this will go....