Am I in the wrong?

Question

Am I in the wrong for being upset?? FH is very upset as well. I know I kind of blew up on him but this is after about a week of hounding from all of our parents and I couldn’t take it anymore. I get that they’re excited but it’s making me really upset. I know I could be overreacting bc I have pregnancy brain and have been over emotional and overreacting to a lot of things lately.

Answer

You’re the one pregnant, you are the one who shares the information. Next time you know that you can’t tell them until everyone knows all at once. I think it’s very wrong for them to push you and manipulate you that way. I think he has a right to say that he doesn’t want it to happen on Christmas Eve at his house, although I’m not sure why unless he thinks people will take it negatively. You would think that he would be excited to have the family all together to break such great news. But whatever… Wait until New Year’s! You’re not wrong to be upset about it, but sounds like your parents are being very difficult. It’s not their news to share, and they can’t pressure you to do it sooner.￼end of story.￼￼￼ if I were in your shoes, I would wait until February 🤷‍♀️ ￼

Am I in the wrong?

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