Am I overreacting or

Okay so me and my boyfriend have been together for 2.5 years and we’ve had 3 thanksgivings since we’ve been together and we’ve never spent one together so today I asked if he wanted to come over to my uncles thanksgiving with me and he got like a big attitude with saying he’s not going to leave his family to hang out with mine and I was like okayy then sorry for asking and he just ignores me. Am I just overreacting