I just had a baby with a man who already had 5 daughters (21, 20, 19, 2 and 6 months) and I had his first son who is almost 5 months. AND he’s a grandfather because the two oldest ones just had babies as well.

Now before you say it, I already know. I had no idea what I was getting myself into, but my baby is a blessing. Anyway...

Today is Thanksgiving and last night he tells me that all five of his daughters and his two grandkids will be at his house to celebrate. But what about his son? Nope. Never mentioned him. In fact, he hasn’t called me at all today and I think it’s because he wants to keep my son a secret. I hate it. All I have been thinking about today is how horrible of a man he is. How can you pick and choose which kids to spend time with?